Honest Vows

Budget tiers: what changes, and what stays the same

The tier you pick changes the venue, the food, and how much help you hire. It should not change how much time you spend deciding.

The budget bands below are our planning categories, not market averages. We have not yet sourced regional cost data. Use them to pick a direction, then get local quotes.

Three planning bands

BandTypical choicesWhat to watch
Under $2,500
micro or courthouse-style
Small guest list, a public park or a home, a meal out or potluck, a simple outfit, digital invitations. Legal fees and the license still apply. Plan the date around the office that issues the license.
$2,500 to $5,000
small home-style
Family-sized guest list, a rented hall or a pavilion, a buffet, a DJ or playlist, one photographer for a few hours. Venue deposits and rental add-ons (tables, chairs, power) are where costs creep. See the $5k guide.
$5,000 to $10,000
full day, smaller guest list
A full day at one venue, catering with service, a photographer for the day, a florist for key pieces. Guest count drives the total faster than any other choice. Trim the list before you trim the quality.

What stays the same at every budget

What changes most as you move up

Pick a band by asking three questions

  1. How many guests do you truly need to invite, and who would be hurt if they were not there?
  2. What matters most on the day: food, the people, the photos, or the place?
  3. How much money can you put down now, and how much can you add after the first deposit?

If the answers do not fit one band, use the band for your guest count and add the extra money to the category you named first.

Band definitions reviewed: 2026. These are planning categories, not market data.