Honest Vows

A DIY shopping list: make the few things guests see

DIY saves money only when it saves time you can spare. Make the pieces that people look at in photos, and buy the rest.

We have not yet checked current store prices. The list covers what to do yourself and why. Compare prices on the day you buy, and add an "as of" note to your own budget.

Worth making yourself

ItemWhy it is worth itTime it takes
Table numbers and place cardsSimple cardstock and a printer. Easy to make in one evening.An evening or two
Welcome signPainted wood or a printed board. Guests see it first.A weekend, plus drying time
Table runners and napkin ringsPlain fabric hemmed to length. Repeats across every table.A few hours per table, or one long session
Bottle or jar centerpiecesCheap glass, real flowers or greenery from a bulk order. Keeps the look cohesive.About an hour per centerpiece
Photo corner backdropA string of lights and a fabric panel. You will use it in every photo.An afternoon

Worth buying

ItemWhy buying is the better choice
Tables, chairs, and linensRenting is often cheaper than buying, and it avoids the cleanup. Ask the venue first, since some include them.
Bridal and wedding attireUsed, sample, and off-the-rack are good options. Alterations usually cost more than the dress.
Lighting and speakersA problem with either on the day is hard to fix. Rent with a backup plan.
Food for a large groupFood safety and timing matter. Use a caterer or a plan with a food handler.
Cake for a large groupA grocery sheet cake is simple and reliable for a crowd.

Usually not worth making

Before you start

List reviewed: 2026. Prices not checked. See About for how content is checked.